
Following are some
tributes to some of the Sandretzky boys. I did not originally request tributes
and I realize that
not everyone is included here. However, you will find through
these stories that the others are mentioned. Also, some families
have stronger pictorial than written memorials. Feel free to send more memorials
to me at: click here
A tribute to Hubert Sandretzky
by his daughter, Janet Sandretzky Johnson
Dad was many things-good
hearted, jolly, kind, a joker, a teaser, an occasional truth stretcher,
generous even
though he
didn't have a pot to "you-know-what-in". He was creative
in that he could form many plans and ideas but did not have the
necessary skills or talent to carry them out. Therefore, he loved
to remodel his home but it still looked a fright. Family was important
to Dad--he loved talking to and get-togethers with the Sandretzkys
and Olins. Something left over from those Stone Lake days I believe.
I am so pleased he was able to attend that Olin family reunion
in 1992, as he would die one month later.
Dad was not afraid
to work and as you know was a jack-of-all-trades.
He was always lecturing his "so-called" lazy teenage children.
But he never realized that he really had taught us to be ambitious
by his example you see. I guess we all wish we could do a few
things differently in our lives, and have had more somehow. But
the one true thing Dad had going for him was that he had come
from a wonderfully strong family and history and he knew this.
Memories of Merrill Sandretzky
From Joyce Rothman: I remember my Dad as a hard-working man,
but one who liked to have fun. He loved to dance and was a very
good dancer. He also loved to figure skate and skated in many
ice follies at the Curling Club in Duluth.
When we lived in Milwaukee, Wisconsin he owned his own plumbing
shop. I was about six years old in the first grade. He took us
to school and picked us up everyday. He also played the clarinet
and mandolin and was in several bands. He had a lovely tenor voice
and sang in quartets when we lived in Milwaukee. Then the depression
came and he lost his business and home and we moved back to Duluth,
to live with our grandparents.
He worked hard with the W.P.A. and walked in snow knee high
so he could work and provide for his seven children. Later on
he got a good plumbing job with a shop in Duluth, and we moved
to our own home. He later bought a lovely home on London Road,
in Duluth and after I graduated and got married he and Mom took
a trip to Florida to visit my sister Kitty who was a W.A.C. in
the Air Force. My Dad fell in love with Florida came home and
sold our home and moved to Tampa. He found a plumbing job there
for a real nice shop and worked there until he had to retire early
because of headaches, which were probably due to the loss of my
brother Bob in Korea. I saw a big change in my Dad then and ten
years later my other younger brother Merrill, Jr. (Shorty) was
killed in Jacksonville. Both hard to accept but he did. He volunteered
at the Veterans Hospital until the day he died. He also helped
make the paper every month for the American Legion Post 111 and
was an Officer there for a few years. My Dad lived a full life
and enjoyed it all. My happiest times were probably at our cabin
on Stone Lake which he built. We always had company and relatives
there and they were always welcome.
From Kitty Griffin:
My Dad was a very social outgoing person. He liked people and was happiest
when involved
in civic affairs
and fun social affairs. He was very active in three veterans organizations,
especially Seminole Post 111 in Tampa where he held several offices
over the years. For many years he was on the funeral detail where
his duty was to handle and attend funerals for other veterans--many
without any families. He felt his doing this was an important
contribution to all veterans--he was a very patriotic person.
He was born in Grand Rapids, Minnesota. I don't know many details
of his childhood, but I know he joined the Army when he was seventeen
years old during World War I and spent his time in France. He
had eighteen grandchildren who all adored him. They all liked
to hang around with Grandpa. He was very good to all of them.
All the holidays were very exciting when my parents were living.
All our lives revolved around them--good times--sad times--close
family ties. My parents lived about three blocks from me. I'd
visit them almost every day. In his later years when he slowed
down, my Dad spent lots of time puttering around his home which
I called "The Plantation". Sometimes we'd have "social
hour"--cheese and crackers and maybe a beer. I still go by
the "Plantation" almost every day and I must admit I
still get a lonely feeling when I pass by. One of my nephews lives
there now. By the way, my parents had seven children--all with
red hair--believe it or not!! Oh my pleasant memories--how they
linger!!!
From Beulah Allen: Merrill was a very nice but very independent
man. He never lived with his parents during his earlier years
because Sadie was very young when she had him. He lived with his
father Will's sister Beulah Williams. Beulah thinks that he may
have moved to Chicago though when he was in Grand Rapids he bought
a house from the Olins for $600.
From Florence Erving: My first memories of Merrill were at
a very early age. Our family and Merrill's family use to spend
time together. I remember these times as being full of fun. We
would go to Wisconsin Dells, and picnics at Stone Lake (of course)
where Merrill had a cabin. They always seemed to find room for
our family. Our two families were about the same ages and head
count. Merrill was always good natured and joyful. He cared for
Evelyn and the children and was a good provider. I enjoyed them
so much in my teens. I was always treated as one of the family.
Merrill was well-respect by his friends and neighbors. He was
retired as a plumber and was always active in something. He would
let me drive their car and bought me my first drivers license.
He was a good singer and could really harmonize. I was told he
could really handle the banjo, but I can't remember hearing him
play. In later years, I would visit the family in Tampa, Florida
and Merrill and Evelyn still treated me as one of the family,
as were my husband and children. Merrill and Evelyn enriched my
life tremendously.
Memories
of Rellis "Buck" Sandretzky
From Linda Sandretzky Isaacson
My father, Rellis "Buck" Sandretzky was a master
carpenter as well as a jack-of-all-trades. He was an accomplished
accordionist. Over the years he played with many bands in the
honky tonks. At one time they had a radio spot called "Stump
The Players" and people would call in with their request.
Lillian listened to the radio all day long and wrote the words
to all the songs in shorthand. Buck is best remembered for his
story telling of his many hunting and fishing trips and being
a "Hippie" before his time.
Memories of a child's visits to Stone Lake
From Fern Sandretzky Hughes, daughter of Effern
E. Sandretzky
(most of these memories are from ages 8-16)
"Over the river and through the woods to Gramma's house
we'd go...." Our day would start out about 5:00 a.m. with
our Dad, Effern "Slim" as he was called because of his
thin stature, yelling out "Is there anyone here who wants
to go to Stone Lake?" Dad used that method I think just to
watch us all pile outta bed and dress and eat in a big hurry so
we could get going. We kids wasted no time. Nowadays it is just
a hop, skip and a jump but way back then it seemed like it took
us hours to get up there from Duluth. We lived in Lakewood about
a mile from Lester Park which nowadays is a suburb back then it
was just plain "country". I swear we went about 20 miles
an hour tops. We found ways to entertain ourselves on those long
trips. Before our brother Ron left for the CCC's, there were five
kids to share that small back seat. Well, really four cause baby
brother Lee got to sit in the front seat with Mom and Dad. That
kid had it made, lots more room and when he got older, Mom let
him sit by the door. Donna and I had to always sit in the middle
while Les and Ron got the windows. That's abuse nowadays-ha! ha!-but
we were thrilled to be able to ride in the car. We had to walk
almost everywhere we kids wanted to go. Getting back to keeping
busy on the trip, two of the things I remember well was we looked
for out-of-state license plates and we also tried to name what
make of car it was. Ford, Chevrolet, Plymouth, Dodge, Buick and
Pontiac and maybe a few others. Nowadays, with each manufacturer
making so many models it would make that game next to impossible.
Back then I believe they all made one model to choose from. You
have to know the boys always won that game. We all enjoyed singing
and harmonizing to the songs that we all knew and Christmas Carols
in season. Mom and Dad Mom and Dad always enjoyed listening to
us sing and it sure helped to pass the time. Once in awhile there'd
be a disturbance in the backseat. All Dad would say was "Who
wants to get out and walk?" Boy it got quiet in a hurry.
We were never allowed to be noisy in the car--never!! When we
got to Two Harbors we'd make a left turn and head up to "Big
Noisy Curve" and make another left and after a long time
on gravel roads we'd arrive at the "store". Uncle Chance
(Chauncey) and Auntie Mary now owned her Dad and Mother's store,
"Wallin'-Rollin", which was changed to Rollins. The
railroad crossing was named Rollins. If we were really lucky and
Mom had a few extra nickels, we'd be able to buy an ice cream
cone. After the long squeezed ride, boy oh boy that cone tasted
so good lick after lick. After a short visit off to Gramma and
Grampa's we'd go. We'd make another left at the store, go over
the railroad tracks and then we'd come to where the road had grass
growing in the middle of two tire track paths. Won't be too long
and we'd make the last left turn heading into Stone Lake. Oh boy,
we're there. Oh how excited we all would be scrambling out of
that backseat. Of course, the boys were first out. We girls were
second at everything--guess that's just how it was being younger
then Ron and Les.
I remember Gramma
(Sadie) as always busily going about her many chores. She really didn't
take much time to talk
to us kids
but would talk to our mother and aunties while they worked in
the kitchen. Gramma was a very hard-working woman and she figured
everyone else should word hard too. She was a lot younger than
Grampa (Will) and more hard-willed. Grampa was an ole softy. Always
smiling and he had more time for us. We would tag along with him
as he tended the bees, where we didn't get close, or went to visit
friends and relatives in the cabins or down to the barn to milk
'ole Bessie with Butch the dog his steadfast companion. Everyone
loved Butch, he was a big Lassie dog so friendly and gentle. Just
like Grampa was. Grampa would let us try to milk the cows. I never
could get the knack of it. He would point the teat at us, give
it a squeeze and squirt us in the face all the time. He also aimed
it at the cat dish and to our amazement put milk in it. He loved
to tease and that's where all his boys inherited it from. He especially
liked to pinch us and as "cousin Joyce once said, "he
doesn't care where he pinches either." He used to grab just
a teensy bit of skin and oh how that hurt! Grampa had been afflicted
with Parkinson's Diseases and I remember him sitting in his chair
in the kitchen with his big bunion pushing out of his shoes where
he had cut the leather and his feet jiggling uncontrollably. Funny
what one remembers of years past. We loved our Grampa and Gramma
very much and had such glorious times at Stone Lake.
Gramma and Grampa's
land was ideal for starting a resort.
The railroad had built a bridge across the "narrows" between the two
lakes named Big Stone Lake and Small Stone Lake at the time. My brother Ron told
me the story on the bridge. The
railroad used giant timbers they cut from the land and they're
still in the water there today. They needed the bridge for the
railroad line to haul those giant timbers to Two Harbors, Minnesota.
Mom once told me that a lot of people made fun of a neat archway
Uncle Hubert had built for his mother out of young birch trees.
All the ribbing he took over that archway went for not because
it became the vocal point of many a picture and we all liked to
sit beneath the archway and visit. Almost all who came there would
walk through it on the way to the house.
Another memory
was of a time while staying at Gramma's that I did something I was told
not to do. That didn't
happen too often
but curiosity got the better of me and you could say "the
devil made me do it." When Gramma had left for the barn I
decided to see what was so darn extra special about the cream
in the bowls covered with dish towels to keep the flies out. You
see after separating the cream from the milk she would pour the
cream in bowls and when the cream came to the top it was mighty
thick and she would bottle it up and Uncle Chance would take it
to Duluth Creamery where it was made into butter. She earned money
for the "cookie jar" to pay bills. Well, I quick put
my finger in the cream and tested it--have anyone of you ever
smelled vanilla--and smelling so good you decided to taste it
and it's not what you thought it might be? Well, that's just what
that darn old cream tasted like. It was so thick that my finger
had left an impression in it. Oh, I thought I'd really catch heck
but Gramma never said a word. Had she not told me to touch the
cream I never would have.
Uncle Buck (Rellis)
and Auntie Lil were my favorites. They spent a lot of time with our family.
I love them
dearly for all
those wonderful memories. I always thought Uncle Buck was so handsome
and Auntie Lil so pretty. I remember their wedding dance at Indian
Lake dance hall. Auntie Lil had bought 1/2" pink satin ribbon
and had a stamp made up with Buck and Lillian then stamped it
on the ribbon then cut it at an angle. As we came into the dance
hall someone fastened the ribbon on with a straight pin. Oh how
I felt so extra special. I treasurer that ribbon for years until
it got lost. Oh what fun we all had celebrating their wedding.
The music was lively and I remember my Dad (Effern) played his
mouth organ (harmonica) and the "bones". His bones he
made out of cows ribs--cutting them to the right size, staining
and varnishing them. He held 3 ribs per hand between his fingers
then shook and rattled them in perfect time to the music. Took
the place of the drums. There was a talent to shaking them. Wasn't
as easy as writing about it. Uncle Buck played his accordion.
The other members of the band I can't remember but that was 1938
and I was only 9. The coffee perked away on the big woodstoves
and smelled so good. The cooks (wives) would add eggs and the
shell to the pot while it was brewing. One got hungry dancing
the night away doing the two-step, waltzes, square dances, shoddishes
and mazurkas. The last three being my favorites. I loved to watch
my Mom and Dad glide across the dance floor to the music of an
old fashion waltz. They were so smooth, oh what special memories.
Pretty soon that coffee aroma got you thinking "let's bring
on the food." There were sandwiches, cakes and cookies, oh
it was sooo good. I remember also all the good foods we had when
visiting at Stone Lake. I remember Gramma, Mom (Pauline), Auntie
Lil and other in the kitchen fixin' up the "grub". Uncle
Buck and Uncle Hubert too would go in separate boats to bring
back fish for dinner. Everyone always said Uncle Buck could catch
fish with a "piece of old newspaper." He was a true
outdoorsy kinda guy. There were big, big northerns and walleye
pike in Stone Lake and Uncle Buck knew where they were. We'd help
clean the fish down by the water then bring them up to the kitchen
where all the ladies were busy peeling potatoes to boil making
gravy and us kids would go with Gramma to the "root cellar"
for peas, carrots, corn, green and wax beans that Gramma had canned
form her big garden--there was homemade bread and butter, maybe
a big batch of bisquits and whenever Gramma saw company drive
up, there were no phones for calling, out came the big navy blue
enamel roaster. She'd fill it with beans, water, molasses and
brown sugar and maybe some salt pork and oh them beans were so
good. After we ate all the ladies would clean up the mess. Gee,
when did they get to relax and enjoy the visit? Uncle Buck might
get out his "squeeze box" and I remember Donna, me and
Auntie Lil would sing to his music. My favorite was "Harbor
Lights". I venture to say that was their favorite too! Sometimes
we'd sit in Gramma's special little sitting room. Other times
we would sit on a swing that had been built between two birch
trees. We three would swing and sing. You can see a picture in
this history of Uncle Buck sitting on a chair with his accordion
near where the swing was.
In the sitting room there was as walnut table that the sides
fold down that Uncle Hubert made and a rust wine colored couch
he had helped to build in his cousin Otto Olin's furniture shop.
Gramma had it all covered up so as not get it dirty and we never
sat in there very much. After Grampa died and Gramma sold the
resort I was the lucky recipient of her couch and table. In later
years I gave my sister, Donna, the table. I wish I had it now
to give to Uncle Hubert's daughter Janet Johnson. What a treasure
she would have had.
We swam a lot as younguns'. Growing up we lived outside of
Duluth in Lakewood on dear old Lake Superior which was our swimming
hole. Each summer we always tried to be the first one in. Brrrr--it
was mighty cold and the dogs always won. Stone Lake was much smaller
and quite warm --BUT--full of bloodsuckers. We all hated those
darn things. They were hard to remove and when removed we'd bleed
and oh how we hated to see our blood. Gramma said to use salt--it
works. We'd swim out to the big rock and sometimes if a boat was
not being used we could row out aways and there were no leeches
out there.
We kids liked
to play down by the barn where the chickens
and animals were. Gramma's "mean old rooster" would
always chase us and scare the heck out of us. We could never figure
out why gramma let that ole' ornery rooster live. We also could
never figure out why that "old rooster" never chased
Gramma and Grampa. As I think back now I'm sure Gramma and Grampa
had clubbed him a few times and it knew better. The barn was down
by the water and when we were very young we discovered one of
the puppies had gone down on the dock and fell into the water.
Oh, our hearts were broken. He looked alive but we couldn't get
him to wake up. Oh how we tried! Another time when I was older
there was another heart wrenching experience when Grampa's work
horse "Dick" got mired in a mudhole. It was quite aways
from the barn out in the pasture. I can't remember who all was
there trying to get him out but i do remember Uncle Buck and Hubert
being there. Oh, how they tried to save "Dick" but he
just kept sinking further down in the mud. They finally had to
shoot him.
There were other
things to do on the farm and resort. Like
when Uncle Hubert would start up the "joker", a would
be replacement for tractor, hitch up the hay wagon and we'd ride
to the hayfields to collect hay. Also, there was a need for ice
in the summer for the ice boxes in the cabin and house. All their
boys would be there to help with that. They sawed big blocks of
ice and hauled it to the ice house and packed sawdust all around
them. There would be enough to last all summer.
There were lots more fun times then sad times. The most special
time of the year at Stone Lake was the Fourth of July. All of
the Olins would come up. The cabins were never rented on that
day so that everyone had a place to stay. Grandma would save cream
for those special days instead of selling it. We'd make our own
ice cream. We kids loved to crank the ice cream handle while adding
salt and ice chips. The end results were worth the effort because
I have never tasted vanilla ice cream like what we made at Stone
Lake. There were lots of folks to feed. Big picnic tables were
set up outside with all kinds of good food.
Then there was
the time we journeyed up to Stone Lake for deer season. It was Dad, us
kids and a snuff chewing
friend of
Dad's. He chose to dirty up our back seat window by spitting tobacco
juice about every few minutes. "Ish" what a mess. Gramma
always rented cabins and fed the hunters. WE sat in a big porch
with a long table. Boy, that was lots of fun. I made a mistake
but only once, I was a fast learner. Our family had the habit
of saying "toss me" instead of "would you please
hand me". My mistake was with my Uncle Buck. I was at one
end of that long table, he being at the opposite end. Thank God
I said please toss me the potatoes and not the butter 'cause without
warning there came a potato flying through the air. I'd still
be cleaning up the butter. That's those Sandretzky boy though.
I have many warm memories of Uncle Frank, Auntie Vicki and
her three sons, Jim, Les and Bobbie. After our move to Minneapolis
our families mingled a lot. As far as I was concerned they were
our cousins. Each of the boys was a unique individual. None of
them looked or acted the same. Bobby and I would get to arguing.
I love to argue. Bobby was a bit older so he'd push my buttons
just to get me mad. We weren't really mad at each other, bless
his heart. He passed away quite a few years ago on the operating
table with heart problems. Jim was quite religious and a good
singer. He spent a lot of time with us teaching us bible songs
as we dangled our feet over the bridge. Les was very good looking
and loved western music and had a great voice. Bobby didn't sing
at all. I remember once when Jim was teaching us the songs and
Les rowed out onto the pond just far enough away so that Him couldn't
get to him. Les sang beautiful western songs at the top of his
lungs. He was really getting to Jim. When Les grew up he lost
a leg in the war. I had such a crush on him, he was so handsome.
We also saw Uncle Willard (Willard Olin), his girlfriend Charlotte
and here handsome son Billy. I was very impressed with Bill, he
was so nice and a neat guy. One summer he stayed up at Gramma's.
I remember him nursing a crow back to health. He would kill a
skunk to feed it fresh meat. I also learned he had studied the
Chinese language. He wrote me note then told me the only way I
could find out what it said was to find someone who could read
Chinese. I never ever found out. I had a school girl crush on
Bill but he was much older than me. He was in college when we
met and I was barely in my teens.
My Uncle Merrill
and Auntie Evie had a cabin not far from Gramma and Grampa. Us kids would
go over and play
with our cousins
sometimes. We lived close by each other in Lakewood and grew up
together until we moved to Minneapolis. Cousins Kitty and Joyce
were a bit older than us and so they got to make fudge. They made
fudge at the cabin when I was there--oh maybe when I was 14-15
years old. Of course I wanted to taste it and put my finger in
the hot fudge on the stove. I went around with my finger in a
glass of water all day--I burnt it good. I remember once pulling
taffy at their house and that was fun and good eating. Once or
twice they said "if you bring 2 cups of sugar, we'll make
some fudge." Like a flash we ran home asked Mom for the sugar
and were back down there. Oh, they could make the best fudge in
all the world. I remember once Donna tried to make fudge when
Mom was gone. She put it in the vegetable store room in the basement
it never did set up, we had to eat it with spoons. It was around
that time when I found out vanilla didn't taste the way it smelled.
It was very sad to see our beloved Grampa suffer with a stroke
and die. We all journeyed up to Grand Rapids for our final farewell.
He was sadly missed. Although we couldn't visit as we did when
living in Duluth, we went as often as we could. But like all things
wonderful that era was slowly coming to an end. When Gramma decided
to sell their home at Stone Lake we witnessed a new modern Gramma.
I only wished Grampa could have seen her. She cut her hair and
had a perm put in. She started to wear some makeup. I remember
when Gramma was getting primped up for Uncle Bucks' wedding I
stood in their bedroom watching her curl her hair into ringlets
around her face. She'd warm the curling iron in the chimney of
the lamp. When she got all finished Grampa told her how pretty
she looked. Gramma was far too busy to primp up every day but
Grampa enjoyed seeing her prettied up.
How I'd love to be able to go back
in time and revisit Gramma and Grampa up at Stone Lake. To see and talk to
all those many
aunts and uncles. Oh, what fun that would be. There are only two
of the original people on the Sandretzky side and that's by marriage.
Auntie Lillian Sandsted Sandretzky and my Mom, Pauline Moreau
Sandretzky who was married to Effern Eugene Sandretzky. She'll
be 100 on February 16th, 1998, God willin'.
Time is so rushed and pressured in our world today. Money
was hard to earn but there was more peace of mind and they had
more respect for what they did have. It's now a throw away world.
